Question : Having b'friend but on valentine day I was alone..?
Can you believe that?I have a b'friend but I've never had one valentine's day with him ,and he's never done any thing on the days since our start.I was so disappointed to that.He treated me pretty nice,cared about me so much,and did many things for me.He only gave me a expensive present on my birthday every year,but never gave me any(even one flower) on valentine's day.He gave me a reason that coz every valentine's day in our winter vacation,and his home far away from me ,so he didn't do anything(he said by a assertive voice).And when I told him,I was so unhappy when everytime I heard people said in anywhere:Happy Valentine's Day!! in the day,and he just replied me :I just can't do anything,what ever do you want me to do??! then I just stoped,and don't wanna talk to him about my feeling to this anymore.Sometime,I thought:why can't he just posted me a card or a small present or .... anything little thing like that for celebrating our valentine's day??Why ever year when valentine's coming,and I just like the person who doesn't have a b'friend passed the day only by alone??I'm so sad.
- asked by Connie E.
All Answers:
Answer #1
LoL. Forget about him until tomorrow.People shouldn't be sad or lonely on
Valentines Day.Here I'll be your valentine for tonight.Offers
*hugs**Chocolate**formal dinner*And *slow dance*Enjoy and worry about your
problems tomorrow.
- answered by funnyzombies
Answer #2
I think it's a guy thing...I've two best friends who are female...and I've never
even thought of giving them something for Valentines...I think guys will only
give something on Valentine's Day for their gf....and if their gf found out you
got something from him...yikes watch out...even if it is innocent.
- answered by Chigga
Answer #3
You need to drop the zero and get with this hero baby!
- answered by Rob the Lawyer
Answer #4
Some guys just feel a lot of pressure to do certain things because it is
valentine's day and some can't handle it...Maybe he was really hurt in the past
on valentine's day, maybe you should ask him how he FEELS about valentine's
day...try doing something small for him and maybe he might return the favor
- answered by Jane_Doe
Answer #5
If he treated you well the rest of the time I wouldn't put so much stock on his
behavior on one day. Valentine's Day doesn't have to be the only day you are
shown love by your partner--truly it shouldn't be. If you weren't together
because of school too that would make it even harder to do something nice for
you in a way that you could talk to others about. My boyfriend is in Iraq right
now so I understand the being alone aspect to the day. But you don't have to be
lonely if you know he loves you, I'm not because I know that if he could be here
he most certainly would. I'm sure your boyfriend would like to be with you and
make things the way you want but right now you can't be but he loves you.
- answered by indydst8
Answer #6
I felt lonely on V-Day too. And I spent the day with my guy.We went into the
city, he gave me a rose (which I found a bit awkward to carry all day, to be
honest), and we had an alright day. A few things went wrong, but we laughed it
off. By the afternoon, we were both a little tired so I suggested going
somewhere we didn't need to walk around so much, like the movies or back to his
place... He said he was TOO TIRED and wanted to go home by himself. he makes me
so mad sometimes...Sorry, I was answering your question wasn't i?If your
boyfriend didn't do anything for you on Valentine's, don't get too upset. Men
don't seem to care as much, and maybe he's not one for the whole commercialised
thing the day has become. Some guys are just like that.
- answered by actor_girl_1986
Answer #7
guys useally dont pay attention to small detail, if you told him how you feel
and he still doesnt do anything about it, trying not doing the things he is used
too, some people need a comparison for them to see what they are doing
- answered by Daniel S
Answer #8
How often does he see You.? Maybe he can't afford to give you a gift for
valentines day because it costs too much to come to see you. But he could give
you a phone call and if he has a computer he could email you a free card.If you
don't tell him how you feel and you two don't work it out. drop him . It will
only get worse
- answered by mamayer6
Answer #9
I have a boyfriend too, but spent the day alone. The weather was bad today but
we talked this evening on the phone.My ex-husband never remembered any holiday,
not even my birthday, the only day he remembered Christmas.Many men don't have
that warm and fuzzy feeling about Valentine's day.
- answered by Aliz
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