Question : Valentine day...I'm upset!!!?
I've been seeing this man for the last 6 months. He lives in another state. I thought he would send me some flowers for this Valentine day, but all I recd was just a call with a Happy Valentine day wish. He absolutely has more money than he can spend. I'm upset. Should I tell him how I feel or should I just let it goes?
- asked by Kate
All Answers:
Answer #1 Tell him how you feel - but don't be pushy about it. If you're upset he
definitely should know it, but then again, Valentine's Day isn't the most
important day to show love. - answered by Julie K
Answer #2 maybe hes just afraid of commitment. i know its been 6 months, but some guys
just arent ready and it takes them a while. if you know how he feels about it,
dont worry about the present problem. but if you arent sure how he feels, just
have a talk with him. - answered by oh dang lets bang.
Answer #3 I'm in a similar situation but my guy lives in the same town and hasn't even
called or sent an email. I want a real man. Dammit, sorry I know that wasn't
much of an answer. I say screw him. - answered by hthr_1974
Answer #4 Let it go.. Its about love not $ - answered by Right_Tonight
Answer #5 honestly, he has the money, it takes 2 minutes to call the flower shop and order
flowers. he didn't do it. It takes 10 minutes to get a card and mail it. Last
time I checked you could get them 2 for $1 at the dollar store. Did he do this?
If your awnser is no and no, raise your standards and get rid of him - answered by KOOSE
Answer #6 just let it go...He called you and that is all that matters the most :) Don't
tell him anything...don't rush!! You never know if you will receive them later
;) - answered by baby_nyago
Answer #7 I'm going to tell you like my husband tells me. I can't read your mind, if
something is bothering you then tell me.....so I would suggest to you to tell
him how you feel. He doesn't know unless you tell him. What did you purchase for
him? Not all men look at Valentine's day as a female holiday. I pamper my
husband just as much as he pampers me. He might feel the same about you. You
didn't even call him to say Happy Valentine's day or you did nothing special for
him either. It can go both ways, think about it. Overall, I think you should
call him and let him know how you feel about the whole Valentine's day holiday.
Good luck to ya and Happy Valentine's day!!! - answered by jetta
Answer #8 well i think u shouldnt expect anything! so what, its val-day! does he tell u he
loves u, does he take care of u, is he sweet, is he a gentleman, does he always
listen when u got something to say? then why do u need flowers in order to be
with him? flowers are just a very small detail, but if he does all these things
then u shouldnt be mad at him. relax and enjoy ur day. - answered by oc
Answer #9 Are you really that selfish. Maybe he is testing you if he has money. - answered by tiffantre
Answer #10 girl i would just tell him how you feel about him and everything..i mean i would
tell him on the phone or in a letter.. and if he doesnt listen to what your
telling him.. then i would tell that you dont want him.. - answered by lil_punkgirl85
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