Question : Should I call her before Valentine's Day (I sent flowers to arrive Wed)?
Last Thursday I went on a date with a woman I feel strongly for. Things went well and we planned to meet again for dinner. We last had contact on Friday night and she said she would call soon when she could speak. I have not yet heard anything. After consulting with friends and the advice of this board, I decided to be bold and send her flowers for V-Day to her office, which should arrive Wed. morning. In the attached card, I wish her happy Valentine's Day and ask if she wants to meet for dinner that night. Should I give her a ring tonight/tomorrow night (ask about how she is, how her weekend went or even invite her to dinner)? Or, would it be best to wait for the flowers to arrive and see if she calls me? I think this will also help answer how she feels about me. I think asking her to dinner ahead of time may put her on the spot, especially if she is already busy. Regardless, if I do not hear by Wed. evening, I plan to call her to wish her Happy Valentine's Day. Any thoughts?
- asked by SF Jason
All Answers:
Answer #1
no, surprise her.
- answered by me
Answer #2
No. Stop it. You're being weird. One date and you sent flowers to her office?
Too much. She SAID she'd call you. Let her call if she's interested. You've
already put her on the spot and now she's obligated to respond to flowers-
she'll have to call whether she likes you or not, so that's manipulative not
romantic. Don't keep pushing it by calling her on Valentine's Day. Just cool it
and wait.
- answered by Violet Pearl
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