Question: If your hubby sent a birthday card or flowers to another woman?

Answer #1
birthday card... no big deal..but flowers? that's crossing the line. unless its like his mom or his sister.. no way
- answered by majaji_2000

Answer #2
it depends in the situation like if shes a close friend of u guys and if he told u about also if he doesnt do the same or better 2 u then i might. it all depends u know. but i would
- answered by Daniel S

Answer #3
wow... such a friendly gesture! you have all the right to get angry.
- answered by ndstrss

Answer #4
Nope... shouldnt have- You know in your heart how you feel about this-- does it feel shady-- or does it seem correct-- a close friend or neighbor? Or the cute lady at the gym?
- answered by jeremysgirltami

Answer #5
Depends on how close of a friend they are .... and if they are really that close, you would have met her & would be feeling fine about the flowers & card thingy....If you're not comfortable, then get angry... what you waiting for?!?!
- answered by Rin

Answer #6
If the women is not family... and u vaguely know her... I would say he cheating.
- answered by Tru

Answer #7
yes definitely i wouldnt like to share my love with any other one else especially woman!for me he cud be cheating and will obviously tell u its a friendly gesture,be on ur guard there could be more behind ur back.nowadays we cant trust blindly.b strong dr
- answered by hew_weha

Answer #8
I wont get angry. I know him well and he is trustworthy. He never ever go to another lady with a bad idea of flirting.
- answered by Rammohan

Answer #9
then take what he said to heart and make sure he knows that you want flowers on your Bday
- answered by channy

Answer #10
of course no,if u love ur hubby u know he'll never hurt and make u angry
- answered by JEANNY G

Answer #11
If he told me he did, I wouldn't see a problem. He is being honest. If he did not tell me and I found out on my own, I would be a little suspicious.
- answered by Lost my identity

Answer #12
Depends on the situation. Is she someone who will send business to him? Are they really really old friends? If she is just someone he "knows", then the red flag should go up. I would be pissed either way actually. If my husband is sending anyone flowers it better be for a funeral. He has never been one to send flowers. Go with your gut.
- answered by tiredinaz

Answer #13
card no big deal.flowers hell no!!!!!!!!!!!!!!let her loved one send flowers. not your husband.
- answered by ILovemy68bird

Answer #14
Well, she may be his good friend.... so no harm... be fran and ask him if u have doubts.... in a friendly manner of course not like questions...... are u having an affair etc,,,,,, in a subtle way say don't mind it i just want to be sure and this came into mind and i am just speaking my mind... lets just talk,..... we are friends and i hope if there is anything u don't like about me and i don't like about u we'll tell echother..... so we have the right to tell eachother......... and then u can tell him that u may be right in sending flowers to her but i don't really like the idea... i hope its a friendly gesture right and nothing else? if he is an intelligent guy he will get the idea and will definately tell u that its just flowers nothing more rthan that.... and if he is cheeating on u... then he may blast.... so see for urself.... if things go out of control tell him to just keep quite and try to woo him with all the best qualities u have give him more attention try to look sexy all the times nd pep up ur life... try different things to have sex... tell him that u want him..... sex is one of the languages of love... so try it out.... see u r his wife he can run but can't hide..... try to bring all ur real sself out.....
- answered by Preet_Answers

Answer #15
Unless it was to a female relative (and an older and/or unattractive one, at that), I'd think there was something fishy. 1. Men hardly remember to get cards for their own wives, so if they are getting them, it is for someone significant.2. Flowers are a very intimate gift in North American culture, second only to lingerie.3. Telling a spouse about another person or event does NOT suddenly render that person or event harmless.
- answered by wipeyerbum

Answer #16
Depends. How well does he know her, stuff like that. But on the plus side - he did tell you so it's not like he was trying to be secretive.
- answered by k654i

Answer #17
YES YES YES, if it wasent a group of people all putting together for workmate ect. sounds very fishy to me.why would he take the trouble. i never heard that a man and woman can remain just friends, unless of course shes a family friend of both you.
- answered by Bubbles

Answer #18
That depends...was it his mom? Because you're asking, I take it she wasn't the woman who changed his diapers all those years. Be angry, but don't explode. Just let him know you're hurt and you'd like to know why.
- answered by Dr.Phil

Answer #19
No big deal
- answered by freespirit11672

Answer #20
I would be pissed big time!
- answered by clcalifornia

Answer #21
HELL YEAH I WOULD BE SOOOOOO MAD.... IF U R MY MAN U R NOT GOING TO BE SENDING ANOTHER WOMAN ANYTHING.....
- answered by BLACKNSASSY